Any emotional cut-off between a loving parent and their kids: alienation (poisoned by the other parent or a step-parent), estrangement (an adult child who blocked you on their own), child custody disputes, family court, and many types of cases involving adoption, trans children, a new spouse blocking contact, and family coalitions. We also help parents who are blocked over religious, political or lifestyle differences, and parents whose children have a mental health diagnosis. REVIVE works because of your willingness to try new techniques, not because of the details of your situation.

We ask for an investment of about 23 hours over 90 days, which averages to less than 2 hours a week. Trainings are bite-sized (about 25 minutes), and you have 24/7 access to the community portal to post questions whenever your schedule allows. Group calls run several times a week, and we ask you to attend at least once every two weeks (some parents go to all of them). You schedule your personal coaching sessions at times that suit you.

Yes, we have parents from the UK, Ireland, Australia, Germany, Belgium, France and Canada, as well as the USA. What we teach is universal. Teachings are in English, and many of our parents speak English as a second language.

We work with parents who are over a decade no contact, and also with parents who see their kids regularly, some who even live with them, but watch the relationship getting worse. Some cases are estrangement, where the relationship goes cold and superficial. Some are parents who aren't divorced yet, or are going through a divorce, and can see the other parent poisoning the child.

Every parent we work with says the same thing: “I wish I had found REVIVE sooner.” The earlier you get ahead of this, the less you and your child will suffer. These skills work wherever you are right now.

Yes. Some of our parents are not the biological parents of their children, and they have reunited.

We work with parents of all backgrounds, and with same-sex couples. We work with parents who are estranged from their kids because of a change in identity. Many of these kids have been diagnosed with a mental illness, and here we are clear: we focus on reconnection and healing.

We are not experts in parenting special needs children, and we advise working on that topic separately. We don't replace therapy or legal services.

REVIVE is not general therapy or emotional processing. It's an active implementation system. Most parents who join us have already spent years in traditional therapy. You aren't paying for "more healing"; you're paying for the specialized strategy, role-playing and systemic diagnosis that change the dynamic. Because every component works together as a complete ecosystem, we don't offer a la carte pricing or discounts.

Almost every parent who joins REVIVE starts in complete No Contact. Reconnection rarely begins because a parent sends a magical text out of the blue. It happens because the parent changes how they function in the relationship, creating the conditions for the child to reach back out. REVIVE makes sure that when that opening happens, you don't panic or send a defensive response that closes the door again.

Enrollment covers both biological or legal parents of the same children. Married parents can take part in private sessions, group coaching and workshops together under a single enrollment at no extra cost. We do ask for one parent to be the main point of contact, and no "ping-ponging" between sessions (one parent going to one session, the other to the next). Some married parents choose to have just one parent take part.

For step-parents, we offer Specialized Step-Parent Support Calls, so step-parents can learn how to support the household and lower resistance without disrupting the primary parent-child strategy. Step-parents can't be added as a joint enrollment.

Extreme statements like "I hate you" or "Never contact me again" are standard protective responses in alienated and estranged dynamics. In REVIVE, we help you look past the intense words to understand what your child is actually experiencing. Once you stop reacting to the rejection and address the underlying dynamic, their defensive wall begins to break down.

Court orders can determine access or schedules, but they cannot force a child's heart to open. Waiting for court often wastes critical months or years while the emotional wedge deepens. REVIVE works alongside your legal process, so that whenever court transitions happen, you're equipped to build a real relationship.

REVIVE is a complete 3-month implementation program, not a recurring subscription. Your card will never be billed automatically. At the end of your 90 days, if you want ongoing support, you'll be offered optional, low-touch alumni options to keep getting coach feedback. If you haven't seen results but did the work, we keep working with you for an additional month at no extra charge. And Ginger checks in with all alumni parents about once a month to celebrate wins.

That's okay, you don't need anyone else on board to start. REVIVE works with you, the parent who wants to reconnect. We don't coach the children or the other parent. If you'd like your lawyer or another family member to join a session, we can arrange that, but this program is about you.

We work with parents of all traditions. We do have two coaches who offer a Christian faith-based approach on request.

Yes. You're welcome to use a pseudonym for the community, group calls, and everything else, so no one can identify you. Our systems are secure, your information stays confidential, and you can complete the whole program anonymously. We fully respect your privacy.